love protects. love waits. love sacrifce. love is unconditional. love would be there for every single moments if the person requires you to in whatever circumstances.
love feels the pain when the loved gets injured or hurt.

LOVE IS NOT ABOUT FEELINGS!
feelings are temporal. a relationship is not based on feelings but instead on love. love is more than a feeling. ITS COMMITMENT! faithfulness...you still can say i love you to someone when you lost feelings for the person. because LOVE COMES IN ACTIONS AS WELL! not only in feelings.

'feelings' are selfish! LOVE ISNT! when you have feelings for someone you make them fit into your expectations. when you love someone you do not impose anything on them.
marraige is not about feelings, but instead it is building something beautiful with your spouse. every couple stays married not becasue of feelings but because of love. love is not selfish. so if you lost your feelings for someone, you would not leave the person if you love the other party.

feelings are just bonuses, so are appearances, in the end what last, is the times you and your partner spent together, being there for each other, caring, loving, encouraging.
i will be bleak here, please dont disagree with me...
if you ask any LOVING! couple. they would not be telling you that the glorious moments were when they had sex, but instead it was when due to bleak circumstances, they walked through their dry times together. SEX itself is also a bonus...which yes...it should be treasured and not treated lightly like how the world does now.

so enough said how do you define love now? ?? ???