10/08/2007
I am starting to think people who
keep whining over how pathetic their life is, is really brainless and dumb. If you are one of them, and after reading this post, and do not see things differently and make a change in your life, then you are dumber! Okay, not out to insult you, but honestly, break out of it!
I am not accusing those who whines, i know how it feels when you feel like crap, but it would be quite dumb if you spend too much time crying and not thinking of how to solve the problem wouldn't it?
My previous post mentioned about death. I thought about this today on my way to Zone outing.
If you are going to spend your life not forgiving someone who hurt you, then you have just stopped loving. You have wasted a bit of your life away. Because you have failed to forgive. Love has many aspects, if you choose to love someone, you would forgive him or her no matter how deep the hurt is. It may be difficult, but hey, you want to be rich and wealthy, got to love! The richest man on earth? - Jesus. No one loves like he does.
Another thing, want to live life to your fullest? Stop getting pissed so easily, and honestly, if you spend your life holding against grudges and thinking about retribution, you are like UBER dumb la! Really, whats the point of thinking of how to get our fair share in the argument, when you can simply let go and love? If you spend 10 hours of your life being pissed, don't you think you just wasted that time?
For those of you who feel inferior, and pathetic, your life is messed up, screwed nicely. You feel like you have no say or no control, DO SOMETHING LA! Besides sitting there and cry. Don't misunderstand me, its okay to cry, but don't cry for centuries as well? There is a time for moaning, a time for work. The time for moaning will pass, so get over it and do something about it! And really, just change things here and there. You can't change your parents, who stink to you? Change yourself la! Parents wont kill you if you suddenly become very obedient, so just be a good child loh. You think you have no friends? Go out there and see how many others can't even call a dog their friend. Do something about it? Learn some social skills, start being nice? But please do it with the right motives!
So, here its simple, you see a problem, the next thing to do is to find a solution. Sometimes The problems are beyond us, So let God handle. Because he who is beyond comprehension is beyond our understanding on how he comes up with solutions for us. So just find God.
Step out of it! Don't waste your life away feeling pissed, emo, sad, inferior, whatever! There is no time for that if you want to make an impact and be significant!
Scintillate, Sparkle, Shine