A random thought.
Like really random...

A guy leads.
A girl follows.

Leading encompasses, being a girl's security, giving direction, holding her hand, being her strength when she is weak and in need, being there even when the girl has hurt him, most importantly seeking God before seeking the girl. *Something most guys would fail at doing so. And as a guy and speaking for most guys, i think its seriously not easy to achieve this. And in my opinion all guys in a relationship should learn to still Seek God before seeking the girl, before they marry.

Following encompasses, being the guy's comfort, supporting, listening, giving feedback, covering loopholes, and most importantly watching his back, praying for him. *I dont really know how to put this across, not a girl, thing is the guy is able to fall back? Rely on the girl?

And if any one of them fails to perform his/her role well, the couple would malfunction. Note the word function is still present, thus they function but on unsteady ground. Here God enters the picture.

Again, be reminded random thought...

God be the writer.
God be the writer of the love story of those who read this post.
God let their love story be one that they are proud to claim that its by God's grace and planning. That they do not rush it, that God be uplifted in their story.


We = Couples, and yet to be couples/



"We smile not only because we love each other, but also because God is the writer of the story."